Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Dont Show Your Emotion Just Hold it make you more strong



Very often when we feel bad or our mood is off we try to show our emotion to our friends so that we can feel a bit relaxed.That's a good way but it shouldn't be a habit because its makes us very weak it create a different image in society.See if we are trouble then we have find a solution and carried away with doesn't resolve any issues.My friends this is a very big problem from every 10 people from 100 and its natural but we have to present it in such a way that it looks as if we are strong enough to overcome it.
Even if in my life i have suffered for this a lot and i was having this problem but now i am completely away from this.See emotions are made to share not to show to every one because people take chance and hurt you and who knows more than me when emotions are hurt how it feels.Sharing secrets,emotions to every close one was my habit and i was thinking that this will help in me fighting against my failure.But i was wrong rather than it put me in lot of trouble i was wandering that why i was pushed back when i have done my best then i found these things are pulling me down.I was very good to every one but the same thing was not expected from others and due to these i had suffered and so my friends i want to say that don't carried by emotions because these things make a person weak and leads to failure.

Monday, July 5, 2010

Success and failures makes a person more harder to overcome any problem


Life is not all about giving excuses because the thing is that we are here responsible for all our activities and no one else will come to help us but only they can guide us.Learning from mistakes is very important as mistakes cannot be repeated all the time as this may lead to a great trouble.Also never think that somebody is always there to guide you.As a particular time will come when we have to take our decision as we are the owner of our decision so who the hell are the others to take our decision.

As my personal experience i know how things go bad when you are not taking decisions perfect.Suffering is not the solution my friends only you have to be hard enough to overcome it and this is called struggle and then only you can know what is the taste of failure and success.Success doesn't comes in one day as same as a seed doesn't grow to a plant in one day.It takes a lot of pain to grow a tree.So taking pain is not a bad thing and in life don't think that why you are suffering only because my friends you have not earn enough to buy your happiness so you are now earning to get the taste of happiness.Prediction doesn't comes true as it has nothing to do to your confident,capability to do the things only it adds a motivation and may be acting a superstitious believe to your work.

So do the things that you are thinking to do and rectify your mistakes so that you don't clone your mistakes again and again.But add new mistakes so that you can know that you are on a earning stages for your own happiness.
Now my friends one thing you must believe that you are here in this world between millions of people for a specific purpose and try to find that thing for which your here then you can really find the real happiness.Otherwise you could be a dog or any other species but why we are human being because god has created for some purpose and also we are very lucky.Don't feel ashamed if you can't complete the task in a better way than other do but you are trying it that's enough because in this world all are different as we are unique.So be happy that we are a master piece and never ever give up because when you give up you can't see the next world which is waiting for you.

Giving up easily was a big problem for me and for this i was a looser and never ever tried new things and so i thought i was bad creation of god.It was matter of time only i thought but there was not a significant change in my life so i thought where things went wrong.I found that there were many reasons like lack of commitment,responsibilities,punctuality & the main thing was lack of confident.I tried my best to recover the things that were supposed to hamper my path and i succeed also but still i am trying.As i learn one thing in these years that if you look to other people then you can learn but if you look them only they you cant grow.Following is good but it should be worked out in a definite manner.

We often think that why we got less and some one more than us because he/she deserve for it.See never be unhappy for what you doesn't deserve because god has distributed all the things equally among all.Be thankful to the almighty to make us able to see this beautiful world.